Society for Sacred Sexuality

Gary Joseph · Posted: November 29, 2004

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The many facets of human life that true love is based on. Consciously seeking a partner who satisfies YOUR desire on these different levels makes for a happy and long-lived Sacred Union.

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russ · Posted: March 31, 2005

Many folks wonder if there are "real people" who actually live in Sacred Sexual Union with a partner /mate and /or with themselves and
with God. Is this all just "blowing smoke up people's butts " or is it REAL AND DOES IT WORK?
My name is Russ { "The Lunatic Lover"} and I am" here to testify"
that a life of Sacred Sexual Union with oneself, another, AND with God
is a REALITY available to ANY ONE WHO TRULY CHOOSES IT. My wife Raeanne and I live a life of Sacred Sexual Union as husband and wife , best friends, testers of each other's mettle and substance, AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVERS.
We are as outwardly dissimilar as two people could possibly be.
Raeanne is a slender,small woman , I am a thick, large man. Raeanne is gracious and serene, I am brash and volitile. Raeanne is quiet and unassuming, I am very outgoing and any thing but unassuming. Raeanne is always decorous in her speech, I am an extremely profane man. Raeanne is very cautious and well behaved I am wild and uncouth {Raeanne says I am crazy and obnoxious!} Does this sound familiar to anyone?
Oh yes Raeanne is a well behaved small town mid western girl and I am a big city east coast punk from the lower class "Irish Ghetto" of Boston. I had a classical education in the oldest school in the United States from the 7- 12th grades, Raeanne went to high school in a small town in Arkansas, then in a similar small town in Indiana. Raeanne is a gorgeous African American/ American Indian woman, I'm a reasonably handsome, not nearly lilly white Caucasian ,very mixed breed man.
The outward dissimilarities extend endlessly yet inwardly we are ONE. We share the same passionate intensity in commitment to each other { a commitment which has been sorely tested and ALWAYS GROWS DEEPER AND STRONGER} .We are romantic and idealistic lovers to the core. We find the most incredible freedom in total monogamy.
Being opposite does not mean being in opposition . It means being opposite sides of ONE EXPRESSION and this facilitates EXPONENTIAL GROWTH through COMPLIMENTARITY- being of ONE MIND and BODY.
This opens the way for what I call ULTIMATE SACRED SEXUALITY: being ONE SOUL in 2 bodies. "FOR THIS REASON A HUSBAND SHALL CLEAVE UNTO HIS WIFE and the two shall become ONE FLESH" opens the way for ULTIMATE UNION: two souls BECOMING ONE , living one life in two polar opposite yet united /one bodies. This unity of being in turn opens the way for UNITY OF BEING IN/WITH ONESELF and UNITY OF BEING IN/WITH GOD.
We have been regular visitors to nudist resorts { both family oriented and swinger oriented}, and to swing clubs yet we are not swingers . We enjoy the relaxed openness and easy sensuality and sexuality, which is very much our style,expressed in these venues. All in all swing clubs cramp our uninhibited yet very private way of life so we don't go any more. We live clothing optional and sexually uninhibited in our every day lives at home so these venues no longer are attractive to us.
Any one have any comments? I'll pause for a bit but STAY TUNED there is much more to share! Russ "The Lunatic Lover"

russ · Posted: April 1, 2005

Well hello there Russ is" back on the band wagon " of sacred sexual union.
Before I go any furhter It is important to know the fundamental difference and simultaneously fundamental union which is the totally complimentary and mutually supportive foundation of Raeanne"s and my "unending love affair" Ok we just absolutely DIG EACH OTHER !!!THAT HI FALLUTTIN LINGO GETS TO ME TOO EVEN IF IT IS REALLY THE WAY IT IS dammit. Give us ALL ABREAK ALREADY YET!!!! amen.
Raeanne has absolutely ZERO interest in either "sacred sex' or Tantric Kriya Yoga . I on the other hand have been both a student and practitioner of "sacred sex" for many years ,as well as a conscious spiritual aspirant for all of my adult life and a practitioner , mentor , and initiator of Tantric Kriya Yoga .
A seemingly more incompatible couple there could not be you may be thinking or saying to yourself. Yes!?! Alas LOVE truly does convert all
and each according to our SURRENDER!! Raeanne and I are fundamentally the same = the male and female complimentary parts of an AWESOME UNITY of being whIch is based on UNCONDITIONAL LOVE for ourselves , each , and God WITHOUT FRICTION because we see this love as an EQUALITY OF IMPORTANCE not as a "hierarchy of importance", We, each , and God are ONE not in opposition or threatening to each other.
There goes that high tone horse [expletive] again dammit!!!! Basically Raeanne , me , and God are "in synch" and grooving with each other and IT IS SO INCREDIBLY COOL!!!!!
Ok so does this really mean anything in day to day life for Raeanne and me? OH YES , OH YES , OH VERY MUCH YES!!!!!!!
We start our day with a deep "soul kiss" and brief deep eye gazing
as Raeanne carresses my genitals. We have coffee and talk before we watch "Divorce Court" We often cuddle and carress and stroke each other throughout the day{ we work at home as massage therapists and sexual healers so we have a lot of time together and when we are not 'Busy" we play A LOT }
We affirm each other ALWAYS.We do not allow negativity a place in our hearts,home , or relationships with eachother , God or neighbor. This is the fundamental "discipline of the heart "lovers practice without effort becuase it is the source and sustenance of freedom
and BLISS for each.
There is no other woman for me than Raeanne. I know it and I makeSURE she knows that Iknow it! I know that she feels exactly the same way because she makes SURE that I know it. Not just lip service which vanishes in the face of life's indignities like wrinklles, fat, droopy
ANYTHING ANYWHERE,momentary discouragements, deep personal challenges to grow in love and wisdom, OR ANY THING ELSE GOOD, BAD, OR INDIFFERENT but an ABIDING "I've got your back" dynamically expressive and unifying love which supports and frees to accomplish what ever is needed or desired to be accomplished or experienced by each other as we progress together in life and love.
More smoke blowing !?! Actually no IT IS THE LITERAL TRUTH FOR US. This lends itself to incredible sexual intimacy and adventure!!! FINALLY !! Russ we thought you'd never get to it .
Well Raeanne and I ALWAYS have incredibly passionate , uninhibited sex . We have since day one. We may slow down from time to time to accomodate illness, injury or a "need to be alone".none of which is frequent or usual, but we ALWAYS return to "abandoned passion and worship". We have no taboos we just enjoy giving each other pleasure often, every day. Oral sex, role playing, animalistic/agressive sex, tender delicate romancing to the core sex, anal sex- I love receiving it Raeanne is some what more tentative but very much "up for it" with gentleness{ damn it SUCKS TO BE ME and RAEANNE!!!} all kinds of loving , lust satisfying _ yes we do get lustful for each other- sex and connection all day every day. We are living out each of our fondest hopes,deepest desires, and most fervent prayers to find and uncoditionally love andsupport our ONLY TRUE LOVE each other FOREVER in every and anyway necessary for each of us and both of us to live and love in absolute freedom.
Russ "The Lunatic Lover"

Gary Joseph · Posted: April 7, 2005

Russ & Raeanne are a perfect example of what love is all about: mutual shared desire.

It doesn't matter how alike, or how different, two people are or appear to be -- personal desire spurs individual growth, and shared desire grows relationships.

I encourage other couples to share the story of their love.