Society for Sacred Sexuality

Gary Joseph · Posted: November 29, 2004

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The basis of true intimacy, and how to build it naturally. wuv

russ · Posted: September 10, 2005

Try adding breastfeeding /nursing to your sacred sexplay and see what it does for you , your lover/beloved , and your relationship! This is a wonderful sacred sex practice !!!

Please give some feedback luv

Gary Joseph · Posted: September 12, 2005

I agree, Russ.

Nothing restores innocence to a man, a woman, and their relationship better than nursing, which is one of our first and primeval life experiences. It's amazing how the stresses of the day melt away in the simple act of giving/receiving loving nourishment.

I highly recommend it for building intimacy.

wuv

sita · Posted: September 12, 2005

Yes, Russ that is a great idea Idea

.... I'm not sure if you meant it in the way that I would do it, if I ever had the chance, to do it again....

I would take my infant to my breast and make sacred love with its father at the same time...

After all, the baby was conceived from that love, sacred love, and should be a part of love making as long as possible...

Babies should be exposed to the blessings of pleasure as often as possible, so they learn to create it within themselves before they are socialized by our puritan, 'tight-bleeped' society into thinking sex and pleasure are wrong, dirty, and sinful...

Nursing my babies was a very soothing, relaxing, loving and, at times, very erotic experience for me... My babies picked up on that!... They rarely ever cried... They were never clingy nor in need of constant attention or entertainment... They knew how to blissfully play for hours with their toys and each other... Now they are both, loving husbands and excellent fathers.

Any nursing mother should try at least pleasuring herself if her partner is not open to the idea of making love to her while she is nursing...

Now, I offer my breast to my present sweetheart and he loves the pleasure and closeness it makes us both feel.

russ · Posted: September 12, 2005

I meant you nursing your lover like you nursed your baby . It is a fabulous intimacy builder and excellent for women who never breast fed and men who were never breastfed. My experience is that it strengthens my inner feminine and Raeanne loves it too. We incorporate nursing into our sexplay regularly.
It is a unique experience which is why I suggested it.
Many women find nursing their baby to be very erotic as well as deeply affirming of their feminine nurturing role.
There is a specific energy which only comes through a woman's breasts ; men benefit exceedingly in feeding on it as do women in feeding their men in this way. Surprise, surprise

Gary Joseph · Posted: September 13, 2005

Both of these ideas are great, as is nursing your baby AND your lover at the same time. That, and Sita's desire to nurse her baby while making sacred love to her partner, is not only a great intimacy builder for relationships, it also creates strong and loving family bonds.

For those interested in reading more on these topics, here are two related Forums:

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Family Life - wholeness in a home

Intrepid Voyager · New Contributor Joined: 14 Jun 2009 Posts: 1

i posted this idea on another forum,moderated by a woman,which focused on intimacy.The moderator was outraged by the idea and eventually deleted the post.How this could be on a forum which espoused building intimacy eludes me to this day. The positive response to this idea here is indicative to me of both a far more "down to earth" approach to intimacy by those here and a willingness to go beyond the bounds of western sexual correctness in general which to me is essential in embracing Sacred Sexuality.

Gary Joseph · Posted: June 28, 2009

Thanks for sharing that. Sacred sex allows for any heartfelt desire to be expressed, enjoyed, and used as a vehicle for expanded awareness and realization of being.

It doesn't mean you must partake of every type of desire - everyone has their own likes and dislikes that they should honor - but it means that we shouldn't judge or condemn the desires of others.